05 March 2024

It’s not what happens in life that defines you as a woman but how you deal with your situations. As we head towards March 8th, 2024, and celebrate women worldwide on International Women’s Day, together we should take a step back and look at how women (and men) need to address adversity to step up to success in their lives and strive.

You have heard by now the phrase ‘when life gives you lemons turn them into lemonade’. This is true today as it was whenever the first person coined the phrase. Use the following tips to help you turn adversity into success and strive to become the person you were born to be.

Believe in what you are doing.
You have heard the classic tale how Thomas Edison continued 10,000 times before getting the light bulb to the way he wanted it. It’s hard to say if that number became exaggerated over the years, but he likely tried several thousand times at least. The point is, he believed in what he was doing. When you try something that is untested, you need to take a leap of faith. Otherwise, it’s too easy to give up on your venture.

Learn from your failures.
If you ask any successful person how they got that way, they will most likely tell you it’s due to overcoming failures. They learned from those failures and tried something different. Each iteration, they learned something new from their failures. They continued until there were no failures.

Let others help you.
Sometimes, when you face adverse situations, others can help you to turn your situation around. It’s rare that anyone faces something unique. Others have been through what you are going through. Reach out to them. It’s better to get the help you need than to needlessly struggle with your situation. Some people avoid reaching out because they are embarrassed. Just remember, those people once went through it, too. They know what you are dealing with.

If you are facing some adverse situation, it may be due to setting too high an expectation.
You could have tried to accomplish something that is not possible or beyond your current level of skills. By adjusting your expectations, you may be able to succeed in your situation.

Don’t wait to try again.
If your adverse situation is due to procrastinating, you can probably figure out you need to stop that behaviour. If you let something build because it’s uncomfortable to deal with, in most cases, the situation will get worse.

Learn how to conquer your fears.
Often, adversity is due to not taking action because you are fearful. When you face your fears, you can move past the adverse situation and get on with your life. Try some daring activities like bungee jumping or skydiving. The point is to create situations that you would not normally find yourself doing. Usually, when you overcome one fear, the process helps you to overcome all of them.

Another aspect to adversity is not being honest with yourself about the situation.
People tend to hide their true feelings or deny that they are facing a situation. Try some introspective to learn what is truly going on.

Conclusion

Climbing the cliff-face of adversity in order to find success and reach the top is something that women (and men) will attempt over and over as one goes through life in order to see growth and fulfilment. We each need to remember we are not alone in this, and that help is just a call away. Seek out those you want to be like and then put your own stamp of individuality on that picture to make it yours. Don’t let your current situation rule your future of opportunity. Ladies, take the lemons out there and make it lemonade!

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